For the Linguist: My Word for 2014

Four years ago my “New Year’s resolutions” forever changed. I was challenged by a yoga instructor to choose one word for my year. Not a list of “to dos” and grand dreams. But an intention. Oddly, these intentions have guided the last few years of my life in profound ways.

2013 was the year of “stirring.” I wrote:

I resonate with words “active” or “lively”. I don’t mean “busy.” Busyness is one of my biggest enemies. But lively in the ALIVE sense. I want to be all there… all there for my kids. All there with my husband. All there, honest, real, energizing, and sometimes raw in writing with you folks. All IN when it comes to fitness, running, camping, hiking, skiing. Invested in my role as teacher. Devoted in my role as Christ-follower. But this doesn’t just happen. I need to be stirred.

Indeed my year was unified by this intention. I ran my first half marathon. I trained for and completed my first triathlon. I led my first all-women’s backpacking trip and summitted a handful of new 14ers in Colorado. I was stirred to new levels of writing, new levels of enjoying my kids.

My horizons were expanded in terms of what I believed I could accomplish with my life. I was stirred.

mom and kids, on bed

But with all the active, lively, life filling-energy I am also realizing my need for balance.

I read a poster the other day at the gym that said, “I can do it ALL in my lifetime. ”

I think that is a lie. I cannot do it ALL. And frankly I don’t like the pressure of thinking I can or should. I cannot accomplish EVERYTHING that my heart desires. I know that in this moment of life I cannot pursue my writing and photography to the level I necessarily want AND be the mom I want to be to my kids. I cannot do both. I need:

balance

ˈbaləns/ noun 
1. an even distribution of weight enabling someone or something to remain upright and steady. 2. a condition in which different elements are equal or in correct proportions. Stable, Steadiness, equilibrium.
In short, I want all the elements of my life in correct proportions.
It is good to grasp the one and not let go of the other. Whoever fears God will avoid all extremes. – Ecclesiastes 7:18

What is your word for 2014?

12 comments on “For the Linguist: My Word for 2014
  1. He friend! Just wanted to tell you I really enjoyed your post today. I appreciate the battle for balance that you see the need and want for. I’m with ya friend! Balance is so key. The gym by our house has a billboard that I walk past often that says, “without effort and vision your goals will not be met.” And I ponder that as I speed walk back home (or rather, as I ice-Ka-pade back home over the frozen tundra)…. Effort… Vision … Grace…

    • I’ve been think about that a lot with tri- training. I need a vision. And a lot of effort. But then a lot of grace so as not to become trapped by my goals life happens. It is maneuvering along the course that is the trick.

  2. I love balance as the word for the year. I might have to use it another year. This year however, I’ve already picked Focus. I want to focus on those things that are important and spend less time getting distracted and side tracked from my family, my needs and my goals.

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  4. Oh my, my, my. I LOVE THIS. Balance is a great word.

    I think mine will be focus. I need it in so many ways this year as I transition from living the dream to being “normal.” Especially if I intend on writing a book this year!

  5. I have powered through so much of your blog tonight -I am new here! Wow….I relate so much to what you write about!!! My word for this year has been LIGHT.
    It is twofold for me -firstly letting the light and joy of Jesus shine more fully and profoundly in my life which in turn makes me more ‘light’ (not getting stressed or overwelmed with stuff, or feeling the heavy burden), and secondly I have a goal of using light to create better images in my photography pursuits! !!

    Thanks for your writing. I feel inspired 🙂

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